tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post8676898093369038710..comments2023-10-01T08:13:30.788-07:00Comments on Desertfox 冬天版 雪山飛狐: 體罰雪山飛狐http://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-34874439760204429962009-06-16T01:17:15.728-07:002009-06-16T01:17:15.728-07:00Hana,
1. 我爸不喝酒.
2. 有, 但我听闻的只有一次.
你的说法是很接近现实. 我...Hana,<br /> <br />1. 我爸不喝酒.<br />2. 有, 但我听闻的只有一次.<br /><br />你的说法是很接近现实. 我妈就如你所说的.<br /><br />本来打算昨天晚上写的. 但由于我妹写的东西我昨天晚上变成跟我妈谈这个. 今晚会继续.<br /><br />其实我去了美国十年多, 以为以前的事真的会过去, 但回来一碰到我爸以前的事又飘到眼前. 以前由于是他照顾我, 所以打不能还手, 骂不能还口. 由于我现在不依靠他所以吵起来更糟.<br /><br />最近心情嘛嘛, 所以找这题目来练中文. 希望写完之后收拾心情去中港玩个痛快.雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-85878321642861069762009-06-16T01:06:08.300-07:002009-06-16T01:06:08.300-07:00Jenny,
我妹妹出来了, 那证明我猜错了. 在此道歉.
其实我只想把事情写出来,让自己心情...Jenny,<br /> 我妹妹出来了, 那证明我猜错了. 在此道歉.<br /><br />其实我只想把事情写出来,让自己心情平复. 毕竟现在父母跟我一起住, 抱着这过去对整个家庭没有好处.<br /><br />找旅游资料找到这里来, 看来我这里来的人比我想象中多. 希望你找到你要找的, 包括亲情.雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-31927815831732914452009-06-15T23:43:03.525-07:002009-06-15T23:43:03.525-07:00其實我想問你父親酗酒嗎?
有沒有動手打過你媽媽?(哪怕是一次?)
你父爆燥而你倔強,你妹會未打先...其實我想問你父親酗酒嗎?<br /><br />有沒有動手打過你媽媽?(哪怕是一次?)<br /><br />你父爆燥而你倔強,你妹會未打先流淚會討僥,而你不會,所以你被打得多。人都是伸手不打笑臉人的,哪怕笑瞼後面藏著陰險毒辣。<br /><br />你母親是傳統中國婦女事事以老公為大,逆來順受...甚至可以犧牲兒子。如果你母親肯/能挺身保護你,糾正你父親,相信你的童年陰影不會這麼重,一家人的關系也不會像現在這樣。所以你母親也是有責任的。<br /><br />上一篇回應我說打只能在五、六歲前是有原因的,孩子太小跟他講道理是沒用的因為他還不懂事嘛!比如2、3歲吃麵他用手來抓你用筷子敲他的手遠比跟他說道理有用,(道理講完麵都泠了...)<br /><br />一開始讀書寫字心智開始發育了就不能再體罰了,因為體罰是很容易造成以暴易暴的脾性的。<br /><br />既然一直有陰影有不愉快那就趕緊寫下來吧!在心理學上我們叫這作:書寫治療。<br /><br />不要一直放在心里面對他、解決他、放下他。唯有解除了對自己父親不滿的心魔你才能真正做個公平、公証的好父親。Hanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878494751658888832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-76961857067821480732009-06-15T16:54:47.482-07:002009-06-15T16:54:47.482-07:00我自問也沒有說一些過份的說話 就算是你相熟的人又有什麼關係呢? 我應該不認識你和你妹妹 只是做旅行功...我自問也沒有說一些過份的說話 就算是你相熟的人又有什麼關係呢? 我應該不認識你和你妹妹 只是做旅行功課時找到這兒 我不認同你的歡點與行為不代表我在為誰說話 只是我也有差不多的經歷 由細到大沒原因的被哥哥討厭 不知自己做錯了什麼 父母不打我我可以做什麼? 叫他們打我嗎? 最後他幼稚地對我做了很多過份的事情令我真的開始討厭他了 其實現回想真的好無聊 沒有了聯絡很多年 真的在街上踫到也不知道認不認得 不過過了這麼多年說這些已經太遲啦Jennynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-76506762105589552032009-06-15T05:42:26.566-07:002009-06-15T05:42:26.566-07:00Holly,
Not going to respond to your first one be...Holly,<br /> Not going to respond to your first one because it is going nowhere.<br /><br />As for the second part, I am very sure that you went back to HK with mom. However, if you deny it, there is nothing I can do. The fact is, I was alone and working as a waiter for the restaurant that day, and that whatever happened did in fact happened.雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-71914224255824199892009-06-15T04:42:37.886-07:002009-06-15T04:42:37.886-07:00One more thing, me and mum both remember that she ...One more thing, me and mum both remember that she has never go back to hk with me. She went back to hk on her own, leaving me and you behind working in the restaurant.Hollynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-55905842638533866342009-06-15T04:31:02.947-07:002009-06-15T04:31:02.947-07:00First of all, this will be my last time visiting y...First of all, this will be my last time visiting your blog or leaving comments. The reason I came here is purely because of the praque photos. I remember you have shown this blog to mum and therefore you are expecting them to read your articles some day. When I saw you describing my dad as a devil, I just have to leave a comment to defence for him. I think it is not a good idea to argue here anymore because in order to respond to your points, I have to give too much description about you. This is your blog, and I decided to repect you by not providing anymore of your privacy. I can't say 100% sure that your happy family is created purely on your imagination. The only thing that matter's to me is that my mum is living very unhappy right now and I know dad has already try his best to be silent, by hiding his own personality he has built up through his life so why can't you also try your best to keep your temper down just to make everyone happier? Anyway, I still think our parents love both of us very much and deserve a happier living environment.I still think it is not hard to keep temper down, you just need to eat more vegetables! Alright, I will leave you here for peace now. cheers and bye.<br /><br />P.S. I started this arguement so I hope don't transfer your anger to mum and dad for providing the necessary information.That's what she worried the most.Hollynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-24537845831488218972009-06-15T03:57:14.735-07:002009-06-15T03:57:14.735-07:00行姐,
我老婆对我这么好,怎舍得罚我呢? 亲我都来不及.行姐,<br /> 我老婆对我这么好,怎舍得罚我呢? 亲我都来不及.雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-80692103835082322202009-06-15T02:53:57.078-07:002009-06-15T02:53:57.078-07:00>>這次說一下自己的經歷。
我仲以為係你老婆體罰你...哈哈>>這次說一下自己的經歷。<br />我仲以為係你老婆體罰你...哈哈自由行noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-69904778565031517852009-06-14T23:27:20.289-07:002009-06-14T23:27:20.289-07:00Holly,
Likewise, I don't need you to worry a...Holly,<br /> Likewise, I don't need you to worry about me as well. Dad survived his whole life without a doctor, who the hell do you think you are to tell me to go see a doctor? Besides, it is always easy for you to play innocent by staying away from the situation. No matter what happens, you are never involved because of the unfair treatment.<br /> If you don't think I am honest in my story, write your own version then. My intention was to post my view on my history to make a point of how physical punishment can have an effect on me. Thus I will not go around and gather the opinion of everyone involve and write an objective story.<br /> Once again, since we don't really talk much outside of this blog, I really fail to see the point of you coming here to make false claims. You only see me for less than 10 days a year, to put it in a blunt term, you don't know s**t.<br /> I am going to make it clear to you, for the last time: <br /><br />1. I don't need mental doctor, I will have my way to clear the past out of my head, as long as I don't have dad around with his temper to remind me of the past.<br /><br />2. I do treat mom nice. I make sure their daily need is taken care of, that's what I can do.<br /><br />3. You forgot one little thing, if I am so horrible, mom and dad would have moved out already or Coco would have left. The fact that they are still here and is living happily on a day to day basis, should at least count for something. You who isn't here, really don't know enough to start pointing fingers.雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-38368746858605879522009-06-14T15:58:19.757-07:002009-06-14T15:58:19.757-07:00I think I don't really need you to worry about...I think I don't really need you to worry about me after all those year of 不聞不問.....and I strongly suggest you to listen to mum.....find a doctor as soon as possible to deal with your mental problem.....you are making everyone in my family unhappy except yourself.....please don't make anyone cry again.....I hope you can be more honest in writting your story....and please don't blame on your miserable childhood anymore....it is not an excuse to everything......Hope you can treat mum and dad nicely, at least at the level of how you treat your friends......if not I think your 報應 will come faster than mine.....Hollynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-52110009590866892672009-06-14T14:00:39.556-07:002009-06-14T14:00:39.556-07:00Eric,
有一次我爸由于不想影響到餐館,把我推到隔壁的Disco去打。(白天Disco不開門,...Eric,<br /> 有一次我爸由于不想影響到餐館,把我推到隔壁的Disco去打。(白天Disco不開門,由于是同一業主,所以兩邊打通)沒想到被清潔工人發現了。她想報警,但被我媽勸阻。我也不是很願意看到我爸被抓去。<br /> 其實我也想放開這段經歷,我只想他承認他以前這樣子是過了火。而且這段經歷的確對我有很大的影響。下一篇會說。雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-56203285971421140932009-06-14T13:50:21.388-07:002009-06-14T13:50:21.388-07:00Viking,
壓力絕對是一個理由,後來他也有了糖尿病,情緒更不受控製。
有了這經歷,我肯...Viking,<br /> 壓力絕對是一個理由,後來他也有了糖尿病,情緒更不受控製。<br /><br /> 有了這經歷,我肯定不會這樣對小孩,但脾氣不好的壞習慣怎樣也改不了。<br /><br />Holly,<br /> Welcome, 記憶中這是你第一次留言。高興的不止是這裏的話比今年你跟我說過的話還要多,而且這並不是火星文,現在距離你畢業還有不多的時間,還是趕緊練習一下你的英文寫作,因為文法還是有點問題。<br /><br /> 我看到你小時候因為功課的問題被我媽罵,打,甚至趕出家門。坦白說,我是打從心底裏面高興。那時候由于在正常情況我媽肯定是罰我不罰你,年紀小小的我唯一想到的就是“報應”。當然到了今天我也覺得幼稚,畢竟這是不公平的賞罰做成的反應。<br /><br /> 現在爸媽退休,跟我一起住,情況並沒有像小時候一樣的一天家無寧日。媽肯定跟妳說我不聽話,但你們要知道,我十多年來一直在外面生活,不可能一下子他們來了我像個三歲小孩子的甚麼都聽他們的。這是不可能的事情。另外,他們也不可能現在來要求我像隻小綿羊的溫柔。我的脾氣是爸訓練出來的。好于不好他們也的接受。這輩子我性格上的優點和缺點都是來自爸媽,姑姑,和姑父。看來我好像喜歡把責任推給別人,但基于人之初性本善,後天的成長環境對人的影響是對一個人有絕對的影響的。<br /><br /> 總之,他們對我的養育之恩,從現在開始我會慢慢報答他們。我很高興現在他們還健在,我還有機會去孝順他們。<br /><br /> 最後我祝妳順利畢業而且找到美好的生活。雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-64896499733109963292009-06-14T11:54:40.616-07:002009-06-14T11:54:40.616-07:00打到你不省人事就真的有點過分。而且十五歲還打就似乎不再是體罰了罷,有點兒發洩成份。
"他...打到你不省人事就真的有點過分。而且十五歲還打就似乎不再是體罰了罷,有點兒發洩成份。<br /><br />"他把我從餐館裏面,經過餐館,一直拖我出門口然後把我推出去。那時候餐館有客人,他們都看到了,但沒有說什么。"<br /><br />你們幸運。在加拿大,就曾經試過有人報警,驚動了負責保護兒童的機構,把小孩帶走。搞了一大輪才能帶小朋友回家。erichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05250737581315104602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-76870829452239129592009-06-14T10:50:40.194-07:002009-06-14T10:50:40.194-07:00I remember that I was once locked out of the house...I remember that I was once locked out of the house several times because of my homework......I cried for a long time and you didn't help me at all....just laughed....this also create the gap between you and me today.....Anyway it will never be fair on this issue......But I still think whatever I did to you when I was a kid is better than what you did to me when you grow up.....<br /><br />Can you please think about what mum and dad did for us rather than how dad beat you up ages ago....it will make you happier I believe....<br /><br />Re Jenny: 他真的很小氣.....Hollynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-90072241295063606602009-06-14T09:23:12.862-07:002009-06-14T09:23:12.862-07:00你老豆脾氣都幾臭個喎。維京人父親亦一樣,小時候動不就發脾四,不過就冇你嘅 case 咁誇張。相信那時...你老豆脾氣都幾臭個喎。維京人父親亦一樣,小時候動不就發脾四,不過就冇你嘅 case 咁誇張。相信那時候搵食艱難,壓力大所至?<br /><br />相信我們這一輩應不會再如此對我哋嘅仔女啩。始終生活質素應比上一代好。同埋有咗 Internet, 真係俾仔女 post 你打佢嘅片段落埋 youtube 都有可能個喎 .....<br />;P市場維京人https://www.blogger.com/profile/13331783950542619305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-67491087729550346062009-06-14T06:16:29.205-07:002009-06-14T06:16:29.205-07:00Jenny,
我有足夠的理由懷疑你是我的妹妹或你是受我妹所託在這裏留言(她從沒有在這裏露臉)。沒...Jenny,<br /> 我有足夠的理由懷疑你是我的妹妹或你是受我妹所託在這裏留言(她從沒有在這裏露臉)。沒關繫,只是猜猜而已...<br /><br /> 過去的事情我當然要讓它過去。但不代表過去的事沒有對我做成影響,下一篇會說這個。<br /><br /> 你是對的,我很固執,但不只在這方面,在學業和工作上我也挺固執的,這是我的優點但也是我的缺點。<br /><br />三耳姐,<br /> 說實話我現在就是最介懷他那種不專重人家的行為。而且很多時候被打了也不知道錯在哪裏。打但沒有教,那打來幹什么呢?<br /><br />小瓶子,<br /> 我跟你一樣,現在我爸媽住我家。現在我的不耐煩和煩躁的脾氣他們也只能苦口婆心的叫我小發脾氣。心底裏他們知道為什么我今天是這樣。而且<br /><br />Imak,<br /> 無論對男和女我都仍為打是最後的選擇。罰,可以。但一定要教。孩子一定要知道他們犯錯而且一定要跟他們討論下次該怎樣做。<br /> 我覺得我現在討論怎樣教孩子有點紙上談兵,但我正在跟我老婆努力做人,很快我就會知道我是不是在鬥up.雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-86870144351364588292009-06-14T04:42:45.042-07:002009-06-14T04:42:45.042-07:00我們小孩時代, 打係好common 姐, 不過講真果時細個, 真係好驚架, 仲攪到有童年陰影! 所以...我們小孩時代, 打係好common 姐, 不過講真果時細個, 真係好驚架, 仲攪到有童年陰影! 所以我沒有打過我女兒................ 不知是好事定壞事!imakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10548725016828742883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-75693681356599873682009-06-14T04:19:04.314-07:002009-06-14T04:19:04.314-07:00小学时偶然被父母打, 我小时父亲的脾气很差, 动不动就骂人.
现在我愤怒就破口大骂, 父母也只能哑...小学时偶然被父母打, 我小时父亲的脾气很差, 动不动就骂人.<br /><br />现在我愤怒就破口大骂, 父母也只能哑忍, 因为他们知道这是自小培养出来的臭脾气, 哈哈哈哈哈!!!!!Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05500212205851010599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-32387939311980676492009-06-14T04:09:59.773-07:002009-06-14T04:09:59.773-07:00以上是我的留言以上是我的留言聶秀康https://www.blogger.com/profile/07416265700699436410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-87539164564268661402009-06-14T04:07:27.341-07:002009-06-14T04:07:27.341-07:00Desertfox
看到你的被打經驗真的不太好
我是家中最少的女兒印象中祇給呵爸"亨&qu...Desertfox<br />看到你的被打經驗真的不太好<br />我是家中最少的女兒印象中祇給呵爸"亨"了一次頭壳<br />非常痛也很惱他,但就給媽媽用藤條打過<br />當然被打就會覺得難受和好無臉子(醜)<br />何況你是男的當著別人被打是非常非常難下台的<br />而且十幾歲真係有自尊懂性的了<br />當然你爸爸是愛你的誰不愛自己的兒子呢<br />可能在外做生意養活一個家庭真是壓力很大<br />老式人教仔都離不開體罰<br />祇是他那刻火起沒照顧到你的感受而爾<br />至於呀爸錫女呢個感受我是認同的<br />不過現在你巳結婚有自己家庭遲些還會有下一代<br />受過苦的你一定能當一個講理由的好爸爸.<br />PS.一巴打暈那應是額角兩則你爸爸都幾重手聶http://moonfloowing.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-82617216646337080372009-06-14T01:43:58.708-07:002009-06-14T01:43:58.708-07:00你會不會小氣了一點呢? 你妹妹當時四歲 還有你平時真的有欺負你妹妹 就當疑點的利益歸于被告嘛 你應該...你會不會小氣了一點呢? 你妹妹當時四歲 還有你平時真的有欺負你妹妹 就當疑點的利益歸于被告嘛 你應該幾硬頸 通常只要不再對著幹他們很快便會下火 你爸爸看來還是疼你的 過後也有說對不起 不是每個父母也會這樣做的 過去的事就算了吧Jennynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-63588088304805604452009-06-14T00:06:00.733-07:002009-06-14T00:06:00.733-07:00Richma,
我被我爸打完之後,我媽是要我去哄我爸的。當時被告知因為他是爸爸,我一定要聽他。
...Richma,<br /> 我被我爸打完之後,我媽是要我去哄我爸的。當時被告知因為他是爸爸,我一定要聽他。<br /><br /> 自于我妹妹,我爸的懲罰方法是拿起毛毛拖鞋說:"我打你啦。","我真的打你啦"。然後我妹妹已經可以熱淚滿臉了。雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-71886814498827375532009-06-14T00:02:43.167-07:002009-06-14T00:02:43.167-07:00若先生,
打,可以關門打,為什么要在公共地方打?這是對小孩的自專做成不可修補的傷害。
所以我有把每...若先生,<br />打,可以關門打,為什么要在公共地方打?這是對小孩的自專做成不可修補的傷害。<br /><br />所以我有把每一件事情都寫出來。你是應該知道在我爸的case,犯的錯和體罰是不成比例的。<br /><br />柏楊的example也說明了那個賊是一個喜歡推卸責任的人。雪山飛狐https://www.blogger.com/profile/06431328749360721626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1301265470220765483.post-90814161524974912022009-06-13T20:44:08.417-07:002009-06-13T20:44:08.417-07:00你被爸爸打的遭遇, 真的很慘.
也許我和兩個妹妹都是女孩, 所以, 比較少被打.
弟弟是唯一...你被爸爸打的遭遇, 真的很慘. <br /><br />也許我和兩個妹妹都是女孩, 所以, 比較少被打. <br /><br />弟弟是唯一的男孩, 所以只在一兩歲時被爸爸打過唯一一次.因為弟弟被打之後, 差不多一個月不理睬爸爸, 爸爸出盡百寶都無法逗回弟弟歡心, 所以爸爸以後都不敢打他了.richmapoor mahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03662668275399229471noreply@blogger.com